Friday, July 20, 2007

Misunderstanding

At home ..
Him: How is your days?
Me: OK.
Him: Have you had dinner?
Me: I had already.
Him: Why you not waiting for me?
Me: I am busy, I need to finish the work.
Him: Do you need something ? Coffee or tea ?
Me: Hmmm no. thanks.
Him: Some cookies?
Me: No.
Him: Today there is something bad in work. Very very annoying man. So proud of himself.
Me: Hmmm .. oo
Him: You know him, guess he is your friend.
Me: Really, what is his name?
Him: Alex the celebrity.
Me: which one I don't remember.
Him: The one we met in the Mary's party. A man with strange dress. He came with his sister. You too had conversation remember?
Me: O that Alex. A wonderful man indeed.
Him: Pardon me ?
Me: Yes, he is a nice gentlemen, we have same hobbies. And he is very nice to his sister and his family.
Him: He is a very very bad man. He even talk to people without looking to their faces.
Me: Why you say that?
Him: This morning in the meeting. That what he done.
Me: I don't believe it.
Him: Why you not believe me ? You saying that I lie to you?
Me: He is just not that kind of man. Impossible. I really don;t understand.
Him: Everybody knows it. Many don't like him.
Me: You should not judge people before you know them.
Him: And now you blame me ?
Me: Why you speaking so loud to me ?

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Planning in Daily Life

A friend of mine, someday after had conversation had told me "You are too extreme"

The reason is, well there are some points which he considered for me being an extremist .. in life. WOW ... surprise me. I still don;t think I am so extreme.

So for you I will describe the points he mentioned.
1. planning.
For me for many aspects in life must plan it, for example we plan for next week where are we going beside the routine work, what is the special appointment etc. Do I need to prepare special dress for special occasion, if so do I need to purchase one, if so how much is the budget and when can I go to the shops ?
This all about set aside the time for some 'must-do' or 'will-do' things.

2. importance of information
In order to make it of course I will need information. What information? Information about the events before, long enough for me to make the decision how to set the time and manage the activities. What to prepare for it. Information to give some understanding and a picture about what is going on etc.

Actually, point no. 1 and 2 I only use for my study. For prepare for the exam, doing the homework/paper .. and use spare time for other-non-study activities ... :D :D :D that's the use of planning and information .. for me.

I finished the Project

This morning I had project defense. Fur you who don't know what is it, just imagine that the project presenter must present the project in front of committee members, the members will asking questions about the project. The difficult part is to explain our project as brief as possible while also present some important detail of the project so that the committee members have an understanding of what we have done and the results.

After passed it, all I can say is the preparation is much more difficult and more complex than the presentation itself. I spend several days for the preparation. From the power point concept I was helped by two-expert-friend who suggested me to include/exclude some points in the slides. And then to include all the diagrams (the project has some diagrams as the design of the new system) in the power point it took more than 1 days, including to format the pages. I also spent some time to read the report and made summary for presentation. Finally, it took only 40 minutes to present the work (which not all ppt was presented) and to answer the quesntion.

This is not part of my project. But I will say again, that I really thank all that have helped me in any aspect in my project. Thank you for the support, encouragement, knowledge, and suggestion. Thank you for your prayers ..

NOTE:
For every difficulty I passed I always said it was not so bad ... (because I have passed it) :D

Friday, July 6, 2007

My Dean Tony (4)

I am already feel so boring with his this-and-this-chat and my answer oh-uhm-yes ... But I can not be impolite as he is polite to me. Still a voice in my heart remind not to trust him, beneath of those are some ugly faces ... wow, what I am supposed to do ? And nobody joining our conversation as they are traveling to another world ...

At a point he mention something inevitably interesting to me: he likes comic! And he likes Conan Detective. wow. well things become more difficult now ... so I have more words to reply in this interesting topic that I almost forgot that he is the man I 'should be careful of' and the topic goes to another hot topic : children, photography, music. Is he really the man ? Until then I gain myself and try to reduce the hotness of our conversation ...

Yes, I can not be too open to this man. I know he is something, there is something unpleasant he will hurt me again .. I will not let this happen. And I shall be more careful.

Well, to be honest from our conversation I found he is something different, never expect that part of him to be exist. He always be a naughty boy, a never-grow-up boy .. a spoiled kid from wealthy family. He is my black-list-guy ...

I know a little about his family. About how his father always generous to people, how his mother always kind to neighbors. But there is other thing that I never forget. The sorrow that his family caused to my family.

I have an aunt, a youngest sister of my father, she was very beautiful. When I was a kid, I can tell that she is beautiful and charming. She would always wears beautiful dresses and know how to dress. She was young, smart, friendly and single. Not that no man 'chasing' her, but I would rather say that many of those feel 'not confident' with the quality of my aunt. She had a lot of friends, they gone out every week. I would like to join them but I was to small to be in those young man, so I only allowed to join them when the young man gathered at our home.

I knew almost all of her friend, well all that has come to our house. I would expected Saturday night so much .. that I couldn't wait for it to come. It's funny that I was not my aunt myself, but I felt that I knew what my aunt felt. I felt the happiness and joy in the folk, when they played cards, played puzzle, or just had chat. The living room was always be very 'live' with the funny stories and jokes then everyone would laughed of the jokes. Sometimes they would made jokes about me, I didn't understand but I knew it was funny and I would laugh and smiled. A wonderful time of the past.

Tony's uncle, James Lee came to our city after he finished his education abroad. He was there to learn business from his brother, which is Tony's father. Heard that someday he would become a director of some company in another city. I guess there is enough business for every member of Lee family .. the wealth that their ancestor has collected for many generations.

Not long before he came, he was introduced to my aunt by some of his friends. And I would see him every week with the other guys. There were some girls also in the group. When they all gathered at first we could not tell why they kept gather at out house .. After some time it was obvious that some of the guys liked my aunt, some liked my aunt's friends ... and the girl A like man B, man B like girl C .. all those complicated things that I just knew after I grown up. I only knew that all are so nice to my aunt.

To be continued ...