Monday, November 26, 2007
When I want to do something I like, it's a rare chance for me. It's a happy time for me.
But then my fren B he always talk bad about it, especially if my happiness in concern with another friend C.
B is more senior than me, I expect he should be more mature than me. Support me when I have chance to do something I like which I've ignored for a long time.
If B has a problem with C, it's not my problem. It's not my fault either. Why do you blame me for what happened to you ? I even don;t understand what is there between B and C? So why do I must be involved with your bad feeling?
Please forgive me B, it's difficult for me to agree with your opinion. I can not even smile for now, only for this matter. Maybe tomorrow I will smile and forget all this ridiculous thing.
Let me not have any evil in my heart.
Should try it, because time goes without waiting for me nor considering my emotions ...
I wish I could used Photoshop better, ... it's too DIFFICULT. It took me 1 day to put 4 pictures together in a page ... and to make some effect!
And it's winter now here, feel like want to sleep and lazy to get up in the morning. Why should I wake up early??? And why the blanket is so warm??? At 6.15 (am) when I go to the bus station ... it's so cold when the wind blows.
So temporary will not update this.
Hope you guys also in a warm room and avoid to get cold. God Bless you.
Saturday, November 17, 2007
One day, when I was a freshman in high school,
I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
His name was Kyle.It looked like he was carrying all of his books..
I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?
He must really be a nerd."
I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.
His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him
He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes
My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. "
They really should get lives.
" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"
There was a big smile on his face.
It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.
As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.
He said he ha d gone to private school before now.
I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.
He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.
I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends
He said yes.
We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.
I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!
" He just laughed and handed me half the books.
Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.
When we were seniors we began to think about college.
Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke.
I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.
He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship.
Kyle was valedictorian of our class.
I teased him all the time about being a nerd.
He had to prepare a speech for graduation.
I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak
Graduation day, I saw Kyle.
He looked great.
He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.
He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.
Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
Today was one of those days.
I could see that he was nervous about his speech.
So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"
He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.
" Thanks," he said.
As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began
"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.
Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...
I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.
I am going to tell you a story."
I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.
He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.
He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.
"Thankfully, I was saved.
My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."
I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.
I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.
Never underestimate the power of your actions.
With one small gesture you can change a person's life.
For better or for worse.
God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way.
Look for God in others.
You now have two choices, you can:
1) Pass this on to your friends or
2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.
As you can see, I took choice number 1.
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is a mystery.
Today is a gift.
It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.
If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends.
He held it up for all to see; asked the students,' How much do you think this glass weighs?'
'50gms!' .... '100gms!' ......'125gms' ......the students answered.
'I really don't know unless I weigh it,' said the professor,'but, my question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?'
'Nothing' the students said.
'Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour? ' the professor asked.
'Your arm would begin to ache' said one of the students.
'You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?'
'Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress; paralysis;
Have to go to hospital for sure!'ventured another student; all the students laughed.
'Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change? ' asked
The professor. 'No' the students said.
Then what caused the arm ache & the muscle stress?'
The students were puzzled.
'Put the glass down!' said one of the students.
'Exactly!' said the professor.' Life's problems are something like this.
Hold it for a few minutes in your head; they seem OK.
Think of them for a long time & they begin to ache. Hold it even longer & they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything.
It's important to think of the challenges (problems) in your life, but
EVEN MORE IMPORTANT to 'put them down' at the end of every day before you go to sleep.
That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh & strong & can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!'
Remember to 'PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY!
You make me feel that I am very useful.
You make me feel that I am very worthy.
You make me feel that I am not lonely.
You make me feel that I could do everything when You were there by my side.
I love you.
At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised.
They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home... suddenly he asked the waiter: "would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."
Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.
She asked him curiously: why you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea , just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there".
While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home..
Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.
They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him!
Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life...And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.
After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said:
"My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.. Now I'm dying, I'm afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again".
Her tears made the letter totally wet.
Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied.
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Most of us wouldn’t mind being a little more humble,
but oh how we hate to be humbled!
That hurts our pride,
But that kind of pain if good for us if we can welcome it and let it accomplish its purposes.
Remember the mantra of Olympians:
No Pain No Gain.
1. Look for the best in people.
Everyone has had some experience you haven’t and is your superior in that respect. Albert Einstein who is largely regarded as one of the greatest minds ever, said, “I have never met a man so ignorant that I couldn’t learn something from him.”
2. Give sincere compliments.
It’s hard to look down on others while telling them what you admire about them. The more you put positive thoughts about others into words, the more good you’ll see in them and the less likely you will be to fall into the egotism trap.
3. Be quick to admit your mistakes.
It’s been said that the hardest words to say in any languages are “I was wrong”. Those who refuse to do so out of pride are likely to keep making the same mistakes and alienate people in the process.
4. Be the first to apologize for an argument.
If “I was wrong” are the hardest words to say, “I’m sorry” have to be the next hardest. It will kill your pride, as well as the argument – two evil birds with one small stone of humility.
5. Admit your limitations and needs.
It’s human nature to want to appear strong and self-sufficient, out of pride, but that usually only makes things harder.
Humble yourself and ask for and accept the help of others, and you’ll come out miles ahead.
6. Serve others.
Volunteer to help the elderly, the infirm, or children, or do some other form of community service. You’ll gain more than you give, both in humility and loving thanks.
7. Learn something new – a new skill, language, sport, or hobby.
Starting from scratch is nearly always humbling, but the rewards are manifold: You’ll come out of the experience a little more humble; your example of "doing the humble thing" will encourage others and, contrary to what your pride tells you, win their admiration and respect.
8. Give God the credit for anything good about you and anything good that He helps you do.
"Let not the wise man glory in his wisdom, neither let the mighty man glory in his might, let not the rich man glory in his riches. But let him that glories glory in this, that he understands and knows Me, that I am the Lord!" (Jeremiah 9:23-24).
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband thanyou."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during myleisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Once upon a time the colors of the world started to quarrel. All claimed that they were the best. The most important. The most useful. The favorite.
Green said: "Clearly I am the most important. I am the sign of life and of hope. I was chosen for grass, trees and leaves. Without me, all animals would die. Look over the countryside and you will see that I am in the majority."
Blue interrupted: "You only think about the earth, but consider the sky and the sea. It is the water that is the basis of life and drawn up by the clouds from the deep sea. The sky gives space and peace and serenity. Without my peace, you would all be nothing."
Yellow chuckled: "You are all so serious. I bring laughter, gaiety, and warmth into the world. The sun is yellow, the moon is yellow, the stars are yellow. Every time you look at a sunflower, the whole world starts to smile. Without me there would be no fun."
Orange started next to blow her trumpet: "I am the color of health and strength. I may be scarce, but I am precious for I serve the needs of human life. I carry the most important vitamins. Think of carrots, pumpkins, oranges, mangoes, and papayas. I don't hang around all the time, but when I fill the sky at sunrise or sunset, my beauty is so striking that no one gives another thought to any of you."
Red could stand it no longer he shouted out: "I am the ruler of all of you. I am blood - life's blood! I am the color of danger and of bravery. I am willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire into the blood. Without me, the earth would be as empty as the moon. I am the color of passion and of love, the red rose, the poinsettia and the poppy."
Purple rose up to his full height: He was very tall and spoke with great pomp: "I am the color of royalty and power. Kings, chiefs, and bishops have always chosen me for I am the sign of authority and wisdom. People do not question me! They listen and obey."
Finally Indigo spoke, much more quietly than all the others, but with just as much determination: "Think of me. I am the color of silence. You hardly notice me, but without me you all become superficial. I represent thought and reflection, twilight and deep water. You need me for balance and contrast, for prayer and inner peace."
And so the colors went on boasting, each convinced of his or her own superiority. Their quarreling became louder and louder. Suddenly there was a startling flash of bright lightening thunder rolled and boomed. Rain started to pour down relentlessly. The colors crouched down in fear, drawing close to one another for comfort.
In the midst of the clamor, God began to speak: "You foolish colors, fighting amongst yourselves, each trying to dominate the rest. Don't you know that you were each made for a special purpose, unique and different? Join hands with one another and come to me." Doing as they were told, the colors united and joined hands.
God continued: "From now on, when it rains, each of you will stretch across the sky in a great bow of color as a reminder that you can all live in peace. The Rainbow is a sign of hope for tomorrow." And so, whenever a good rain washes the world, and a Rainbow appears in the sky, let us remember to appreciate one another.
Hi NICE PERSON
Did Anyone Ever Tell You
Just How Special You Are...
The Light that You Emit Might even Light a Star
Did Anyone Ever Tell You
How Important You Make Others Feel...
Somebody out here is Smiling
About Love that is so Real
Did Anyone Ever Tell You
Many Times, When They were Sad
Your e-mail made Them Smile a bit...
In Fact It made Them Glad
For the Time You Spend Sending Things
And Sharing whatever You Find
There are No Words to Thank You
But Somebody Thinks You're Fine
Did Anyone Ever Tell You
Just How Much They Like You
My Dearest "Online" Friend,
Today I am Telling YouI HOPE I GET THIS BACK
I believe that without a friend you are missing out on a lot!!!
Don't be confused by friends andacquaintances, there is a difference!
Because I care about you.
It's national care week . . . and you get to send messages to all your friends
telling them that you care about them and
make them feel good about themselves, and if they write back (just once) then that means that they care about you too!
BUT, you have to send it right now!!
Send it to everyone you care aboutand if they send it back,that means they care too!
But don't just sendit back, send it on to everyone.Have a nice day, and I'm glad we are friends!!!
THIS IS A HAND OF FRIENDSHIP
PASS IT TO AT LEAST 4 FRIENDS!!
I KNOW WHO I AM
I am God's child (John 1:12)
I am Christ's friend (John 15:15)
I am united with the Lord(1 Cor. 6:17)
I am bought with a price(1 Cor. 6:19-20)
I am a saint (set apart for God). (Eph. 1:1)
I am a personal witness of Christ (Acts 1:8)
I am the salt & light of the earth ( Matt.5:13-14)
I am a member of the body of Christ(1 Cor 12:27)
I am free forever from condemnation (Rom. 8: 1-2)
I am a citizen of Heaven. I am significant (Phil.3:20)
I am free from any charge against me (Rom. 8:31-34)
I am a minister of reconciliation for God(2 Cor.5:17-21)
I have access to God through the Holy Spirit (Eph. 2:18)
I am seated with Christ in the heavenly realms (Eph. 2:6)
I cannot be separated from the love of God( Rom.8:35-39)
I am established, anointed, sealed by God (2 Cor.1:21-22)
I am assured all things work together for good (Rom 8: 28)
I have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit (John 15:16)
I may approach God with freedom and confidence (Eph. 3: 12)
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Phil. 4:13)
I am the branch of the true vine, a channel of His life (John 15: 1-5)
I am God's temple (1 Cor. 3: 16). I am complete in Christ (Col. 2: 10)
I am hidden with Christ in God (Col. 3:3). I have been justified (Romans 5:1)
I am God's co-worker (1 Cor. 3:9; 2 Cor 6:1). I am God's workmanship(Eph. 2:10)
I am confident that the good works God has begun in me will be perfected (Phil. 1: 5)
I have been redeemed and forgiven (Col. 1:14). I have been adopted as God's child(Eph 1:5)
I belong to God
Do you know
who you are!?
Keep this bell ringing...
'The LORD bless you and keep you;
the LORD make His face shine upon you
and be gracious to you;
the LORD turn His face toward you
and give you peace.'
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Ada seorang laki-laki dan perempuan yang bertengkar. Lelaki terlihat lebih tua, sedangkan yang perempuan itu mahasiswa suatu universitas, karena dia masih mengenakan seragam kuliahnya yang hitam putih. Tidak jelas apakah hubungan di antara mereka, apakah mereka itu keluarga atau suami istri. Mereka berteriak-teriak dalam bahasa Thai yang otomatis saya tidak mengerti sepatah katapun.
Karena masih kaget dengan suara-suara tersebut saya masih terpaku di jendela. Tiba-tiba si lelaki memukul perempuan itu. Dia menendangnya di punggung, di perut, menampar wajahnya. Yang perempuan menangis dan menjerit-jerit seta berusaha untuk lari. Sejurus terdengar ada tetangga sebelah kamar juga yang terbangun dan mungkin juga ikut menyaksikan peristiwa itu.
Si lelaki saya pikir mungkin dalam keadaan mabuk, terus memukul si perempuan. Si lelaki merebut tas perempuan tersebut kemudian menjambak rambutnya dan menyeretnya sejauh satu meter. Kasihan sekali perempuan itu, saya sampai sangat tegang menyaksikannya. Kemudian mereka berdua berjalan lebih jauh lagi ke gang kami.
Tidak lama kemudian si perempuan berlari menuju ke arah mulut gang, tepat di bawah apartemen kami si lelaki telah mengejar dengan sepeda motor. Si lelaki itu tidak berbaju. Si perempuan ketakutan dan bersembunyi di balik salah satu mobil. Si lelaki segera turun dari sepeda motor, dibiarkan saja sepeda motornya di tengah jalan. Si lelaki itu terus memukul yang wanita. Kemudian mereka berdua berbincang-bincang, dan kembali masuk ke gang.
Dan sepeda motornya ada di tengah jalan selama beberapa menit. Saya melihat 2 orang pejalan kaki melintasi sepeda motor tersebut dengan santainya. Si lelaki tersebut mungkin sudah sadar diri kembali mengambil sepeda motornya.
Sewaktu terjadi pemukulan ada satu pengendara sepeda motor lewat dan dia berhenti di dekat mereka, namun tidak melakukan apa-apa. Saya sendiri setelah itu jantungku berdebar sangat kencang, benar-benar merasakan horor serta tegang.
Alangkah malangnya si perempuan itu, mengalami kekerasan dari laki-laki. Aku mencoba untuk kembali tidur, tapi jantungku masih berdebar dengan sangat kencang. Apa yang harus aku perbuat, besok pagi-pagi masih harus bekerja. Akhirnya dengan mata yang sangat mengantuk saya pun menyanyikan beberapa lagu pujian rohani "El-Shadai. Lagu itu saja yang kuingat karena ada kata-kata 'tak usah ku takut'. Setelah nyanyi beberapa kali masih saja saya merasakan ketakutan yang sangat. Kemudian saya minum air putih dan berdoa, saya lupa doa lengkapnya tapi kira-kira begini:
"Tuhan tolong aku sangat takut, aku tidak mau melihat seperti ini lagi, tutup bungkus dengan kuasa darahMu, dan aku tolak semua itu dalam nama Tuhan Yesus Kristus, Amin".
Ini lirik lagunya:
Tak usah kutakut
Tak usah kutakut Allah menjagaku
Tak usah kubimbang Yesus pliharaku
Tak usah kususah Roh Kudus hiburku
Tak usah kucemas Dia memberkatiku
El Shadai, El Shadai Allah Maha Kuasa
Dia besar, Dia besar, El Shadai Mulia
El Shadai, El Shadai Allah Maha Kuasa
BerkatNya melimpah El Shadai
Saya tidak ingat lagi kapan akhirnya saya tidur, yang pasti besoknya (pagi tadi) saya bangun dengan segar dan sedikit mengantuk tentunya. Hmmm ... seram sekali, tapi tidak usah takut sebab ada Tuhan Yesus.
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Excerpts from the book Common Sense Health and Healing by Dr. Richard Schulze
Imagine the kind of constant attack your immune system has to survive and defend itself against every day.
If you think flesh-eating bacteria, Legionnaires’ disease and killer viral influenzas are bad, well, medical and scientific research clearly proves that your worst immune attack, your worst immune enemy, IS NOT MICROBES…
…but what you are thinking and what comes out of your mouth, every day.
Furthermore, one of the most healing nutrients to your body, more than vitamins, minerals, enzymes, fresh juices, even more than herbs, is LOVE.
Your brain is constantly working, night and day, 24/7/365; it never shuts down or takes a vacation.
First off, it’s your body’s master computer console, controlling just about every metabolic function and chemical balance in your body.
From your nervous system and blood balances to your sexual function and thousands of other functions that you don’t even know about, your brain is the captain at the helm, creating, driving, controlling, balancing and maintaining YOU, and your entire body, every second of the day.
Scientists now know that when you have a thought, your brain creates chemicals that open what they refer to as windows. And when the thought is over, the window closes.
So when you see the person of your dreams and you feel love, and you have that incredible tingling feeling all over your body, this is a brain chemical. When you feel sexual, this is another brain chemical, and when that #%@&?! cuts you off in traffic and you wish you had laser guns on your steering wheel and could vaporize this idiot, that hate, that boiling acid in your bloodstream or stomach, well, that’s another brain chemical.
Scientists call these brain chemicals NEUROPEPTIDES.
Science has done a lot of research on this subject for a number of years.
What we know is when you have any thought, your brain creates chemicals which alter you, and what you feel is the creation and assimilation of these brain chemicals (NEUROPEPTIDES).
And now here is where it gets weird.
Medical science made a huge discovery in the last decade that went for the most part unnoticed.
They already knew that your immune cells, just like all cells, have specific loading docks on their surfaces to assimilate particular substances.
But it was discovered that on the surface of your immune cells, the cells that are designed to protect you and fight off bacteria, virus, fungus, parasites, cancer—in fact, ALL disease—there is a specific loading dock, a specific assimilation site for NEUROPEPTIDES!
What business is it to your immune cells what you are thinking?
Why do they care?
Don’t they have enough to do with all the germs floating around these days and the cancer rate skyrocketing, without having to eavesdrop on your personal affairs and private conversations with yourself?
Hang on, it gets weirder.
Okay, so we know that your immune system is definitely listening to your emotional dialogue, but no cell, organ or system of your body listens to another system unless it is prepared to react to the information it is receiving.
Your immune cells’ response is determined by your thoughts!
Your immune system is listening to and reacting to your emotional dialogue.
This is exactly what medical science is telling us now, that your immune cells have specific receptor sites for Neuropeptides, the chemicals that your brain creates with every thought, AND that your immune cells’ response to germs and disease is affected, whether boosted or impaired or even STOPPED, by these brain chemicals.
There are physical consequences for everything that you do, and now, it appears, for even everything that you think too.